Ramblings of an insane mind

Why does everything get blamed on you? Even if it has no link whatsoever it gets blamed on you cos you're the 'bad' person so everything gets blamed on you. People just want somebody to blame so that they can take their guilt off themselves. Or they just blame you but they don't understand the things going on underneath that problem. For example, people blame Cho the Virginia Tech killer but they don't understand what's going through his mind and just easily assume him to be a bad person. Things like these don't happen overnight. It's the like how a frog when put in a pot of cold water will sit there happily until the water boils and by then it will be too late. He will be cooked. People just look at the end product. People just look at the problem and assume things not realizing there is an underlying problem.

And it's easier on girls than on guys. Why has none of the past school shootings been girls? Is it because girls have the tendency to be less violent? Probably. But the more exact answer would be that girls have outlets to let these negative emotions out. They have their 'girlfriends', their shopping (retail therapy) and their what have they not... Basically they let out their emotions in less violent ways. On the other hand, men tend to bottle things up, keep things to themselves. They neither express it nor try to 'cure' it. When this bottle gets too full, it explodes. This is when things like school shootings or male suicides happen. Statistics have shown that for every 1 female suicide there are 4 male suicides. (http://menshealth.about.com/cs/mentalhealth/a/suicide.htm) That statistic should at least prove something. I'm not saying that this excuses everything but it's the underlying problems under the problem which everyone only look at. Cheers... _|_